A humble apology for being so un-stylish in the past

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I saw the most beautiful woman the other day. Everything about her was sensational. She was in a pastel green wrap-around top that was draped across her shoulders- revealing but not quite, something about the way it clung to her body. Extra-loose-type pants made from silky material that danced with the wind. Long multi-colored beaded necklaces and an arm- cuff. A half up- half — down hairstyle, like a crown- a huge one- made from her auburn braids that flowed down to her waist. People on the street moved around her like she was a majestic ship passing through. …


I thought we were fixing each other's crowns, not snatching them

The Guardian

At the crowing of a Mrs. Sri Lanka 2021, the former year’s titleholder, Caroline Jurie, decided to yank the crown off the winner's head and place it on the first runner-up instead. She claimed that the winner, Pushpika De Silva, was a divorcee and hence, disqualified from the race.

Did you know your beauty was tied to your relationship status? Yay! Guess I’m fresh out of fucks to give.

I don’t support Beauty Pageants for the sole reason that they keep the patriarchy alive and well

It’s true. They are always based on some misogynistic standard and funded by a bunch of crusty old men with ego problems. Let’s not listen to them when it comes to…


Blame-Shifting Used In Religion Is Killing Us

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It’s only been one post between the last time I wrote about a Religious, porn-addicted, Racist misogynist who went on a shooting rampage. Sadly, the title to my last post still holds. I meant every word of it. I even stated: Have you noticed this specific combination? I sure have, irrespective of skin color. There are bigots on all sides of the aisle.

This week, a mass murderer in Boulder, Colorado, went on a shooting rampage, killing 10 people. He had an AR-556 pistol. He bought it six days before the massacre. He also had a 9 mm handgun. He…


That would be: Not all men

It’s Fragile- Monday’s, and not all men are causing a scene. Actually, it’s fragile every single day of the week but I usually block out the negativity on weekends. Allow me to swoosh onto the mic to release my latest poem, just kidding; I’ll stay in my lane. Let me give a toast instead. Ahem, ahem, move the fuck up….

Not all men suck, just the weak ones.

Not all men suck, just the ones who dont speak up.

And sometimes, it's even the ones who do.

Like last week, for example. A cargo vessel that got stuck in the…


Lil Nas X is the gift that keeps on giving

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Today, 21-year-old rapper Lil Nas X dropped his new song called “MONTERO (Call Me By Your Name)” and broke the internet.

In his music video, Lil Nas X slides down the pole and goes straight to hell. I mean, society told him he would end up there all his life anyway, so he made sure to arrive in style. Yup, he put his leather boots on, twirled all the way down there, and grinded on Satan; even stole his horns. People are infuriated, but I’m infuriated I wasnt invited.

This is literally what my brand is about. Call me what…


Let's show them how colorful we are

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Hi, I’m Nada, but I like to refer to myself as the Mc’Chehade when I write. You are what you write, after all, so you bet you’re going to get a burger dipped in some flavor and soul, a touch of junk, and loads of crunch. Dont forget the large fries; everyone knows I’m so extra.

Ironically, I’m the type of woman who can’t speak up for herself in a room. That’s why I started writing; I wanted to express myself, and slowly I found my voice. I found power in other people’s voices. Actually, I found so much more…


Let’s call it what it is.

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Seven women and one man didn’t shoot themselves. The headlines need to check themselves. A Religious, Porn- Addicted, Racist, Misogynist did. What a combination. Have you noticed this combination a lot lately? I sure have.

A 21-year-old white man went on a shooting rampage in Atlanta on March 17, 2021. He shot eight people; seven women, six of whom were Asian, and one man. The six Asian women were killed. But I noticed the media refused to slap a label on him- it was too early to make a judgment. …


The media labeled her “the most hated mom in America.”

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In brief, Casey Anthony is the woman who killed her baby in 2008. That’s what the whole Internet believes anyway — including me — I’m not acting holier than thou. TMZ reported on a Casey Anthony documentary currently in the works, and people in the comments were rightfully angry. Why is she making a documentary? Look at that white privilege. Is she banking on her evilness?

I get it. A baby died, and no one got convicted. I was pissed and infuriated, along with the rest of the Internet. …


The first Arab Marvel superhero — Kind of

Instagram: @wishfulgenies

When I stumbled across a YouTube video named Marvel’s first Arab superhero, and the opening credits looked like Alladin, I was pissed. This dude was in a red tarboosh and full-on dabke pants. How come our superhero doesnt get a real outfit?

“OH HELL NO! How dare they? We are more than shawarma!” I seethed as I tossed my shawarma to the left to investigate. Assholes. Always painting us like hooligans. Then I realized it was a comedy sketch by two Arab guys and burst out laughing. I can't get enough of them now, and I demand more shawarma!

Habib…


Feminism is not a bad word; you are

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On March 3, 2021, a woman was kidnapped on a street in London while on her way home. She was missing for days before they found her remains and arrested the man who killed her. He happened to be a cop. The outrage is huge.

While some found time to go on Twitter and ask questions like: What was the victim wearing and why she was walking home alone at night, and spew not all cops and not all men in the same conversation; others- mostly women-decided to hold a vigil in the victim’s name. …

Nada Chehade

I finally grew the ovaries to speak up. Insta@nada.tings

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